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FEARS ARE
BLESSINGS IN DISGUISE
"The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the
rain."
- Dolly Parton
My take on Dolly Parton's quote is
that by accepting our fears you will find your rainbow. We always hear
that in order to find a solution to a challenge you must accept what is
happening. Sometimes I think this is all talk, but when I do accept what
is happening, the opportunities start presenting themselves.
Most people run away from their feelings, worries and fears. They make
themselves busy so they don't have to think about what is going on in
their lives - me included.
The other night I felt so lonely I had to run out of the house. I went
to Barnes and Noble to see what new books were on the bestseller's list
and have a cup of coffee. When I got to the store it was crowded. I left
and headed to Home Depot to buy bird food. As I was leaving the store it
hit me that my fear of being alone was dictating my life.
On the way home I started thinking about what was happening. Within a
short period of time I realized that my fear of loneliness was helping
me cope. I thanked my fear and felt better. The next time I have an
attack of loneliness I can thank the fear and see what options are
available so I can take of myself.
Have a great week and enjoy your
opportunities and gifts!
Helen |
